Amy L. Farnham

Trivial Circumstances Blog

My quest to find the sweet spot in sex is not the only place I’m doing what I’m doing. In fact, it’s informed by other

May 14, 2018

One reader asked me to write about the male sex drive. Since I’m not male… take this with a very large grain of salt. Perhaps

May 1, 2018

I started out this blog series intending to blog about sex every day for a month. It’s been well over a month, and I haven’t

April 7, 2018

I\’ve gotten a few messages from friends and family saying they wonder where I\’m going with this blog series on sex. (Side note: it is

February 27, 2018

For my part, as a church-going Christian who wants to honor God, I\’ve heard over and over until it is second nature in my head

February 23, 2018

Lies are more subtle than you think. Or at least more subtle than I suspected for a long time. A college friend wrote the forward

February 2, 2018

God was speaking to me, He was giving me beautiful moments of loving invitation that were far more intimate than anything I’d experienced in my

January 29, 2018

God had started talking to me a little before this point in our story. When I began to give up on my marriage, He started

January 27, 2018

Well, I told you yesterday that I’d show off my celibacy cheerleading outfit. I promise it’s out of the closet, hanging nicely on a hook

January 26, 2018

There is one area of my sex life where I feel like I’ve had real, unqualified joy and personal growth with God, and that is

January 25, 2018