Abuse: It’s Not Only Where the Bruises Are
This particular topic has come to me three completely unrelated ways in the last week, so I decided to write an open letter to church
May 28, 2018
Trivial Circumstances Blog
Every Moment Has Meaning
Fat and Happy
I had an epiphany today. I am an emotional eater, and more often than not that means I eat because I’m happy. That’s right. It’s
May 21, 2018
Under His Voice: Obedience Beyond the Law
My quest to find the sweet spot in sex is not the only place I’m doing what I’m doing. In fact, it’s informed by other
May 14, 2018
Chips, Queso, & Sex Drive
One reader asked me to write about the male sex drive. Since I’m not male… take this with a very large grain of salt. Perhaps
May 1, 2018
Say Your Big Dreams Out Loud
Today I turn 39. That’s a big number. For me, 38 has been a year of becoming bolder and thinking bigger. It’s been a year
April 25, 2018
Polyamory & the Pence Rule
I started out this blog series intending to blog about sex every day for a month. It’s been well over a month, and I haven’t
April 7, 2018
You Asked, I Deliver: Some Advice About Divorce
I got an email this week that started, “I have a friend who wants out of her marriage, or for him to shape up, but
March 29, 2018
Waking Desire (Part 6): Love
This is the final (!) episode of a six-part story. To read the rest of the series, go to Waking Desire. (The posts in the
March 22, 2018
Waking Desire (Part 5): Unravelling
(This is part five of a story. To read the rest of the series, go to Waking Desire. The posts in the story are listed
March 18, 2018
Waking Desire (Part 4): Wonder as We Wander
A note before I dig into my story again… The events in this story were a year ago. (Almost exactly a year ago, as it
March 14, 2018
Waking Desire (Part 4): Wonder as We Wander
A note before I dig into my story again… The events in this story were a year ago. (Almost exactly a year ago, as it
March 14, 2018
Why I Appreciate Your Messages
I\’ve had a number of readers message me something along the lines of, \”I have no idea where you\’re going with this, but I\’m following
March 13, 2018
